Friday, August 9, 2013

Bucket Bag...finally

I did make the bucket bag I posted about many moons ago. I've been carrying it all summer, as a matter of fact, and loving it! I lined it with a fun, floral print (Hancocks) and the neon laminate from Purl Bee is just as lovely as I'd imagined. It was easy to sew with (I put a piece of scotch tape on the bottom of my presser foot when I was stitching on the laminate side) and it was flexible enough for piping. I added some fat piping around the bottom.


I lined the whole inside with pockets--they're great for keeping drinks upright and holding toys. I like the single strap a lot--it's easier to keep on my shoulder than if I'm holding a baby or wearing the ergo. I'm also a fan of bags that stand upright when you set them down, the sturdy canvas and laminate, plus piping on the bottom give it a lot of stability.




I like it! Make one!

Monday, July 8, 2013

Family "Rules"


Am I the only mama who struggles with discipline, with keeping things at the heart of the matter instead of appearances (outward behavior, my feelings when my kiddo misbehaves in public)?? As the years pass, I am more and more struck by the truth that I may have good hopes and plans for my children, but the only one that really matters...the essential thing...is that they know Jesus. Without Jesus, there is no worldly success, education,  or relationship that will make my children happy. 

So it follows that I've been convicted about discipline--I want it to always be about the heart of things. Not that I or my discipline have the power to change a heart, but the Holy Spirit does and that's why I'm also trying accompany discipline with prayer for a soft heart, tender conscience and the work of the Lord in my child's life. I'm also trying to thoughtfully direct my boy to scripture--Hebrews says it is "living and active, sharper than any two edged sword." I can talk and lecture all day, but the Word of God is powerful and full of grace. 

I started looking for a good chart so that my husband and I could discipline consistently and have something to point to with scripture at its foundation. I hated seeing things with "no pinching" or "don't hit" or "no whining." You do need to teach your children those things, but the issue isn't the hitting or pinching. It's a selfish heart that isn't loving or kind. Whining isn't the problem, it's discontentment or lack of patience. So I decided to make my own chart, it speaks to the heart and tells about what we are going to DO, not a laundry list of "don'ts." It's about (and I'm sure I'll have to add things or change things in the future) putting on the fruit of the spirit, developing character and discernment so that hopefully my child will be able to make good choices and not just follow rules. I even purposely left out the word "Rules" from this list. I think there's a thin line between RULES and LEGALISM, I want my baby to know that being a Christian means Christ is your most precious treasure and that the purpose of man is to glorify God and enjoy Him forever. 

(You can click HERE for a link to the printable/downloadable PDF.) 


This Family Chooses to:

·     Love God and love each other
Deuteronomy 6:5, Galatians 5:14, 1 Cor.13:4-7

·     Listen and obey the first time
Deuteronomy 5:16, Proverbs 13:1, Philippians 2:14

·     Use KIND words in a kind voice, be respectful
Proverbs 15:1 and 16:24, Ephesians 4:29

·     Be considerate and have a servant’s heart
    {share cheerfully, look for opportunities to help, be attentive to
           the people around you, be compassionate, exercise self-control}
Galatians 5:13 and 22-23, Proverbs 3:27

·     Show GRACE to each other, be patient, overlook wrongs and be quick to forgive.
Colossians 3:12-14, 1 John 3:16-17,

·    Be grateful, content and choose JOY
Ephesians 5:20, 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18, Phil 4:11

·      When you fail to be like Christ, don’t despair. By God’s grace, you wear Jesus’ spotless robe of righteousness. Repent and start again, praising God for his great mercy that makes a way for second chances.

“It is my prayer that your love may abound more and more, with knowledge and all discernment, so that you may approve what is excellent, and so be pure and blameless for the day of Christ, filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ, to the glory and praise of God.”  -Phil. 1:9-11
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Thursday, June 20, 2013

Think it Through Thursday: Living in a Broken World


This was my contribution to Redemptive Pursuit on Monday.


Psalm 119:123 and 136

“My eyes long for your salvation
and for the fulfillment of your
righteous promise.

My eyes shed streams of tears,
because people do not keep your law.”

Watching the news these past few months is almost too much for me to handle: tiny lives brutally extinguished, women kidnapped, parents bury children, bombs tear holes, leaders need wisdom. All these things together can start you thinking that the world is going to ‘you-know-where’ in a hand basket or that surely this must be the worst the world has ever looked. That isn’t what the Bible teaches.

Just as it has been since the garden of Eden, sin is still our main problem. We could have a lot of different responses to terrible things happening around us: we could post snarky, negative status updates on Facebook, we could get hopeless about how much our society accepts and embraces sin, we could literally or figuratively hide ourselves and our children from outside influences. Or…like the Psalmist, we can weep for them on our knees in prayer, remembering that before Jesus grabbed our hearts we were them and we still need grace ourselves every single day. Then we can set our eyes on the Father who has promised to redeem broken people and a broken world. He’s doing it now, even though we may not always see it. We can give thanks in all circumstances and remember that in God’s sovereignty, “the world’s beauty outweighs its burdens, it’s grace greater than its grime” (Ann Voskamp).

I’ve been praying for a heart like this Psalmist: a heart that cries ‘streams of tears’ over the evil in the world; a heart that jumps to compassion before anger, fear, despair or harsh criticism, a heart that longs for nothing more than it longs for the salvation of hurting people or evil people and for every voice to sing glory to God.

He has done all this for his glory: the cross, forgiveness, Jesus’ robe of righteousness, the promise to redeem the world, the expectation that he will return. This means we love and seek people, build relationships, keep telling them about Jesus and praying for God to change hearts. Salvation is the only remedy for sin, the only hope for a broken world.

Heavenly Father, help us not to lose hope when we look at this world that dishonors you and breaks our hearts. Help us to respond with gospel compassion, longing for change and realizing that it only comes from you. Let this knowledge give us peace, but also renewed energy to tell your story of salvation without ceasing. Thank you for relentlessly pursuing our souls, we weep for the lost and pray that you would grab them up and change hearts of stone to hearts of flesh, all for the glory of your name. Amen





Thursday, June 6, 2013

Summer is finally here!

We've had a lot of fun stuff going on since the last time I posted (almost a month ago, negligent blogger!)

The beach: It was wonderful, the boys had such a great time and we went with some great friends. (Three boys under three all in one house!)





Last week was P's birthday! Hard to believe my baby is three. We threw a joint party with close friends--Curious George/Circus theme. It was so much fun. My friend, H, painted the curious george "banana toss" game in the photo! We also had a toy fish pond and a ring toss, lots of kid friendly food--a popcorn machine, watermelon, hot dogs. We had the cake made by a fantastic bakery in the area and ordered the Curious George figurine from amazon, I made the hat out of fondant (I was hoping to put it on George's head, but it was a little too droopy.) The party favor was a lollipop and a CG book.

I did a little sewing for the party, pennant flags to decorate and a tablecloth overlay.


We did some chalkboard art for the birthday boys--just a few of their favorite things (the chalkboard came from Hobby Lobby). My friend, H, also decorated little water bottles and juice boxes for the kiddos with Curious George art-adorable!




We've also had a couple of fun weekends at the lake...the sun just wipes these babies out!



Hopefully I'll be back with some more projects and life stuff!

Wednesday, April 17, 2013

Think It Through Thursday: Remember and Proclaim



 Ps 66:16
“Come and hear, all you who fear God,
and I will tell what he has done for my soul.”

Have you ever had one of those experiences that you just can’t stop talking about, possibly to the point of embarrassment to yourself and the irritation of others? Maybe it was a once-in-a-lifetime vacation or something your child did, but more often than not it’s a miraculous event, an illness, a traumatic event, a joyful event, a loss—you just can’t stop mulling it over, mentioning it in conversation, re-telling the same stories or applying it to whatever situation is happening at the time.
I think this is how we were created, to re-live and remember formative experiences. We even remember creatively: taking pictures and videos, writing in journals, painting pictures, writing songs, building memorials, celebrating holidays and birthdays—all to capture or cherish or proclaim something specific in our lives. This kind of remembrance is Biblical. In the New Testament, Jesus and His disciples celebrated the last Passover, “He took bread and when he had given thanks, he broke it and gave it to them, saying, ‘This is my body, which is given for you. Do this in remembrance of me.’”(Lk. 22) Communion is a picture of the cross, a visceral reminder of what happened there. We reflect on Christ’s sacrifice and value anew our salvation—it’s a reminder to give thanks and a means of grace so that we never forget to rejoice and proclaim our most miraculous story, giving God all the glory for it.
The Psalms are full of this remembering and proclaiming. Verse after verse tell of struggling people plucked out of the ‘miry clay,’ hidden from enemies, saved, protected, healed, blessed—and the Psalmist does not stay silent! He declares what God has done so that others will know, marvel at his grace and turn to him in praise and thanksgiving.
Many of us have been through something really hard and have already seen how the Lord’s hand sheltered us through it. Don’t stay silent! Write about it, sing about it and tell everyone you know (and don’t know) so that God’s “saving power may be known on earth.” Be unembarrassed as you keep telling your story! My baby boy will be three in June, but I cannot get over the miracle that God accomplished during a frightening pregnancy, with a tiny baby who thrived. I’m not supposed to get over it. It causes me to bend heart and knees and bless the Lord. I keep telling my story to people who have already heard, but it’s always on my mind and heart and that’s the way God intended it. His people lean on Him and say, “Come and hear, […] I will tell you what he has done for my soul!”
Others are living through terrible things right at this moment and cannot yet see the end or the reasons—the reasons may never be clear in this life, but grace is always there. We can trust in the hard times because our God is unchanging. Meditate on what he has already done: it’s recorded in scripture, in the lives around you and in your own life.
All of us have a story, a stunning story of grace—a heart of stone miraculously turned to a heart of flesh, a spirit-given yearning for the love of the Father, a slave set free, a precious Lamb who gave himself up to judgment, a risen Savior, and the promise of a world redeemed. All glory to God! We have a reason to give thanks at all times and in all circumstances. Instead of despair, we can trust that the God who has been faithful will remain faithful. The one who is pursuing our souls for salvation and for His glory will never abandon us in our fear, our weakness, our sadness, sickness, brokenness, loneliness, or anger. In remembering, there is trust and grace and praise.


Father,
“You have turned for me my mourning into dancing;
You have loosed my sackcloth and clothed me with gladness,
That my glory may sing your praise and not be silent.
O Lord my God, I will give thanks to you forever!” Amen

(Ps. 30:11-12)